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2026 Affirmations For Polyamorous, Kinksters, Swingers and More
Building positive circuitry in the new year. 2025 was a blur! It was filled with love, smiles, pain, grief, connection, electricity, and so many more words. Words to describe 2025 should truly become its own post, but we are living in the now. Yes. You, and me, and all of us. We made it. For better or worst...we...are...HERE. And, since we all made it to the special occasion. "What special occasion?", you ask. Try to keep up. You made it to here. The now. Image: Canva Pro May
Jan 162 min read


Swinger Red Flags, Yellow Flags, and Green Flags
Learn the top swinger red flags, yellow flags, and green flags to stay safe and confident in the lifestyle. Understand warning signs and how to read the room.
Nov 22, 20255 min read


The Upside-Down Pineapple: The Swinger Symbol Everyone Pretends They Don’t Know…
If you’ve spent any time in Phoenix, Tucson, or Vegas, you’ve probably seen an upside-down pineapple somewhere — on a shirt, porch flag, car decal, or someone’s grocery cart. Some people still say, “It’s just a fruit.” But I think they know exactly what it means. The upside-down pineapple is one of the most widely recognized symbols in the swinger and open-minded adult community. Its meaning is part humor, part history, and part Desert Southwest culture. Let’s break down the
Nov 14, 20254 min read


25 Spooky Season Kinks You Might Want to Explore for Halloween
It's Fall y'all! The weather has me feeling cozy and cuddly. I have been fantasizing and day dreaming a lot lately. Kink is heavily on my mind since I've stopped the eternal summer sweating for the next 4 months or so. This led me to the idea that it would be fun to find kinks that just give off a Halloween vibe. 🎃 In true dictionary style, these 25 Halloween-inspired kinks are defined in a neutral, educational tone. Items marked with ★ indicate higher-risk or edgeplay acti
Oct 21, 20254 min read


My Sex Party and Rendezvous Bag Must Haves
Why Every Swinger, Kinky and Non Monogamous Person Needs a Go-Bag If you’ve ever done a last-minute overnight, house party, or weekend getaway and realized you forgot something vital. A toothbrush, lube, charger—you already know why a go-bag matters. For people living poly, swinging, or active in the kink community, spontaneity is part of the lifestyle. You don’t always know when a night might turn into a morning. This list fixes that. It keeps you fresh, comfortable, and pre
Oct 15, 20253 min read


Spicy Time Cancelled by Flying Cabinet Kitty
A Polyamory story about takeout, potential cat scratch disease and a handle of sanitizer. This is an AI image, however, it looks EXACTLY...
Sep 29, 20252 min read


Kink and Consent: Lessons From Our 2025 Bday Party to Carry Into 2026
We threw our 2025 birthday party at a Fountain Hills mansion, and the night reminded us that sexy energy works best when there’s no pressure. From wet T-shirt contests to light-up bracelets and a poolside vibe, guests were free to choose their own pace.
Sep 10, 20253 min read


8 Steps to a Safer, Sexier Play Party
Throw sex parties that people remember for all the right reasons. By: Kris of KrisBee Presents
By: Kris
Sep 7, 20255 min read
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